So my first piece of Christian dating advice for men is: Don’t be blinded by her beauty.
Attraction is important, but attraction is a fickle thing when it comes to men and women.
You can be married to the most physically beautiful woman in the world, but if she disrespects you or thinks you don’t provide well or thinks your hobbies are a waste of time, I can guarantee your attraction for her will quickly fade away.
Think about the type of long-term future you could have with a woman when you are dating her. I’m not even saying that if you fall in this area from time to time but repent quickly that you are no longer qualified to date and marry a great Christian girl.
What I am saying is that there are millions of Christian men who are privately addicted to porn.
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Be the Type of Man She Would Want I know Christian women can have high expectations too, but, and this is just my personal opinion, Christian guys are usually way worse. It’s another conversation to talk about what should and should not be important.
If she was living in sin at some point, don’t let that hinder you from seeing who Christ has made her right now.
Your identity needs to be rooted in Jesus, not in her and her perfections. Even if you think she has lived a “pure life,” that is not going to fill you and make you feel like the man you hope she will make you feel like.
If you want a woman who reads her Bible daily and has a strong relationship with God, do you?
If you want a woman who is not dating around and is looking for a long-term Christian relationship that will hopefully result in marriage, are you that type of guy?
hristian dating advice for men, just like Christian dating advice for women, must start with the Bible. So not all of this Christian dating advice will apply to all Christian men.